We all fall in love at some point in our lives, our heart starts racing for that special someone and our assumption of the person being our soul mate start taking the front seat in our mind, at times those assumptions are always right and the relationship blossoms into marriage but at time they are wrong and it ends in heart breaks and we start hating love.
Men might not be picky when it comes to casual hook-ups with ladies but ask a man what he looks for in a wife and he will bring out a ‘must-have-list’ longer than the Nigerian constitution.
When it comes to “wife material”, a smart man does not just pick at random. Wife material is a woman who respects your struggle as a man, promotes your hustle, overlooks your past and appreciates you no matter how difficult you are or has been, she gives you the freedom to fly and dream but also reasons to come back and roots to hold everything together when things get tough. So guys, if your woman has the listed below characters then stop what you are doing and start searching for a ring.
Strong, independent and financially secure:
“It’s not surprising that real men are attracted to strong, independent and financially secure women, these are all very $exy qualities, men are naturally born providers and protectors of the people they love but they also want to know their partner can handle herself”. “Real men actually find it attractive when a woman is confident about her independence, can support herself financially, and shows she can handle herself in all situations, men who find it intimidating when a woman is independent and financially secure are not real men they are weak and only see these qualities as a threat to their masculinity and need to grow up”. Every man needs a strong woman when his life becomes hard, because just like in a game of chess. The queen protects the king.
If she calms you down when you’re mad, never let her go
: “We have a temper, some people have shorter fuses than others so depending on your fuse, this might be even more important to you than others, but if the girl in your life can take you from ultra-pissed back to your normal level of chill equilibrium then you have a girlfriend who truly knows you, and that is a gift, my friend”.
If she believes in you:
“Every man needs a girl who believes in him, who helps with things, if she is by your side and if she believes in you, choose a woman who sees a hero in you and would do anything to keep your m0rals high because he is the one whose love is not limited to the circle of love only, but expands beyond the limitations life”.
A freak in the bed:
“Men love s3x which is why they look for a woman who is a lady in the streets, but a freak in the bed it is an important quality is one of the most ‘must-have’ if you are to have a long and happy marriage, so she must be open-minded, not be afraid of experimenting and be spontaneous from time to time”.