If You’ve Recently Lost Your Job, Read This

[Rajih]

Possibly your day began simply like some other. You woke up and accepted it would simply be another duplicate of each other day you had lived for as long as couple of years. Everything was working out as expected until you got the call.

In only one minute, all that you thought you had came slamming down around you. You are losing your job. Unexpectedly, the day you thought would simply be another "x" on your date-book has turned into a glaring shout point you would effectively have the option to delete.

As much as we as a whole wish we could be set up for the majority of the curveballs life will unavoidably toss our direction, we essentially can't be. There is no manual on the best way to carry on with this life and no chance to get of anticipating what our futures will really have coming up for us.

Here and there, our most dire outcome imaginable turns into our world. A minute you considered a remote chance in the past has now turned into your reality. It is dependent upon you to choose your best course of action. Take the time you have to process your stun, your pity, your indignation, however whatever you do, don't make a home in your decimation.

I realize you are apprehensive for your future. I realize that you have bills to pay and individuals who rely upon you to get past this insane crazy ride we call life. It nearly appears as though every time you at last feel great in your life, the universe removes you and by and by, toss you into the flame. What you generally need to recall, nonetheless, is that it is up to you whether you let the blazes devour you. You have to give yourself a chance to be dismal. You have to feel your resentment. You have to give yourself a chance to cry since holding the majority of your feelings in might be more fuel for the blazes you are so urgently attempting to put out. In any case, at that point you have to release everything so you can proceed onward to the lovely potential outcomes sitting tight for you on the opposite side of this torment.

Sometimes, the push we need to find our true calling and happiness comes in unexpected ways. No one wants to be devastated in order to find success. However, I have learned that some of the worst moments in our lives can help us grow in some of the most beautiful ways. Maybe this job was suffocating you and you were not sure how you would ever be able to get out. Maybe you realized your dream job was no longer your dream. The truth comes out in our most vulnerable moments. Listen to it because you might be surprised by what you will learn.

What if the job you had was an absolute dream? What if you had finally found a place you felt comfortable and happy in? That is the unfortunate side of this life that we will all experience time and time again. There will be times when the best things in our lives leave us, and there is simply nothing we can do about it.

Just because it was the best thing for you in this stage of your life does not mean it will be the best thing for you forever. This could be the universe telling you that there is more out there for yourself than you ever dreamed possible. Imagine how wonderful of a life you will be living once you find this opportunity that is out there waiting for you. If life was great at that step in your career, just think of how amazing it will be now that you are being pushed into taking a chance on the next big step on your path.

Whatever you do, please don’t give up on yourself or the life you have created. Bad things are never going to stop happening to us, but we do not have to let our difficulties destroy us. You will get through this, just like you have gotten through all of the dark times in your past. It will be okay. You will be okay. Change is necessary and healthy. If we were meant to stay in the same place forever, life would not be filled with so many exciting opportunities.

Here’s to you and the first day of your big, new adventure.